White Spot Between Jaw

sex, emotional dependence and a few good movies


"The 40 Year Old Virgin" is a good movie. "Knocked Up" is not very good but soo worth it and "Superbad" is really cool. Entertaining plus: good morals.

particularly "40 year old virgin" is interesting. Sex has become a religion that calls for the trust as an offering. Men are told from puberty that they are only real men if they have as much sex with many men and women suggests that men want to fuck as many women and if any time you want to take things slowly, would they understand it as an affront. In the end, both man and woman under pressure are set. In this way screwing horny degenerates to mutual satisfaction of their own inferiority and anxiety.

Man Motivation can be divided into two groups: positive and negative. As a positive motivation I call the desire to do something because you want to do it, and loves the story itself. Without regard to the fruits of action and love the story itself, which is positive motivation.
(This principle is found at the bottom of each tradition, and also Aiwass by Frater Perdurabo has it, as follows: "Pure Will untainted by the end, and freed from the greed of result, is perfect in every way ").

Negative motivation is perceived to be either" do something to achieve something "to fuck in our case to satisfy themselves, or attempted Matter to escape, such as the inferiority complex. Unfortunately, fucked

is far too often by both men and women as a result of negative motivation. That sucks.

the basis of a fulfilling love is the positive "yes-saying" the partner. Neither give in to the fears and emotions, not even the result being in love. Only when the heart and mind are one, both partners can grow a relationship.

But if the regular fucking the center of a relationship that is where everything else is subject, then one goes into a vicious cycle of emotional dependency. That sucks.

Hence the conclusion: You who reads this, are an attractive man who has no need to fuck to know that he is loved by God. So do you not blackmail, not a partner and low even by your instincts and have the courage to do and say what is right even in the face of loss, have the courage to risk being alone, because in the end you can only win.

"I give everything, but I want nothing, for I am everything" - Indian mantra

Just look at the above-mentioned films, they are very upright and provide a good practical overview of the principles mentioned!